Yoshi’s concerts

In the last couple of weeks we saw two great concerts at Yoshi’s. In some ways they were opposites of each other but what they had in common was how much I enjoyed them.

On Tuesday, March 6 we saw Sean Jones. He is 28 and the lead trumpeter with the Lincoln Center Jazz Orchestra. I think all of the guys playing with him were younger than him and in fact a couple of them were still in school but wow! what talent. He only played for one night and it wasn’t sold out but it was clear that he is on the way up. It was wonderful to hear.

Last Sunday, March 11 we  got to see  Stanley Clark. His Yoshi’s bio said:

"
Bassist, composer, arranger, producer, bandleader and film score
composer, Stanley Clarke is one of the most celebrated bass players in
the world. For over thirty years, Clarke has received virtually every
honor – including a Grammy, seven Grammy nominations and three Emmy
nominations. He was voted Best Bassist by Playboy for 10 consecutive
years and is a member of Guitar Player‘s "Gallery of Greats."

Clark played for 2 shows a night for four nights and all the shows were sold out. I’ve never seen anyone play like him. Part of the time he played the bass like a guitar. The energy level and the music transported me. He is 55 . It was clear that I was in the presence of greatness.

In Search of History

While we were in Mexico I read and thoroughly enjoyed In Search of History by Theodore White. The book, written in 1978, is the personal story of the White’s life as a journalist and the people and historical events he experienced. The lessons still seem very valid and the view of history is fascinating.

White is a great story teller. In Search of History is organized into four parts. Part one is set in Boston where White grew up and went to Harvard. Part two is set in war time Asia, primarily China, from 1938 to 1945. Part three is set in post war Europe between 1948 and 1953  and Part four covers 1954 – 1963 in the U.S. Although White is probably best known for the Making of the President books that tell about the 1960, 1964, 1968, and 1972 Presidential elections and for giving the Kennedy era the title "Camelot", I found his stories about the communist take over of China and about Europe and the Marshall plan the most compelling.

I almost always enjoy autobiographies because I enjoy reading about people’s interaction with and reaction to history.  By telling the story of his life, White  sets out to find history in what he has seen experienced.

I love the idea of blogs as conversations. As I was sitting on the balcony of our condo in Manzanilla reading In Search of History I kept finding passages that I wanted to discuss. I made notes and am finally getting around to sharing four of the passages here.

  • After describing his experience of the Japanese bombing of  Chungking  in May of 1939 White wrote;

"What I learned was that people accept government only if the government accepts its first duty – which is to protect them….. Whether in a feudal, modern, imperial or municipal society, people choose government over non government chiefly to protect themselves from dangers they cannot cope with as individuals or families."

Although it seems self evident I hadn’t really thought about it.  I was struck by how  important a lesson this is when we think about the nascent government in Iraq today.

  • White experienced the Chinese civil war between the nationalist and the communists first hand. His perspective on the American reaction to the civil war was very interesting.  He writes the following about the period when the U.S. began to help Chiang K’ai-shek’s forces:

"No one explained, nor could I publish, that at the moment when Mao had to choose between the Russians and the Americans, we forced his choice back on the Russians, where he would rest uneasily for the next twenty years. Nor was it understood that we were involving America in an Asian civil war for the first time"

It is kind of ironic when you think that White wrote this book in 1978  thinking of Korea and Viet Nam. I bet he never would have guessed that Viet Nam wouldn’t be our last Asian civil war.

  • In talking about leaving Time magazine in July of 1946 and his split with Harry Luce, Time’s Publisher, White talks about learning something that I remember learning during one of my first jobs. I saw the truth of the following in every company I worked for right up to my last days at Intuit.

"With boy scout simplicity he (White) believed that organizations are as loyal to their employees as they expect those employees to be to them. He did not yet know that organizations and corporations have an internal loyalty only to the thrust that drives them forward and that individuals are sacrificed to that momentum."

  • Later in the book White talks about the emergence of national magazines like Life, Time, Look and the Saturday Evening Post in the 1890’s.

"This period of political breakthrough is remembered for the muckrakers who gave their name to an era. Yet the advent of the national magazine meant much more than the simple exposure of of oil monopolies…… It meant that whoever was responsible for a national magazine had to think nationally…. Their political power, nationally, thus was prodigious.

White was in the middle of what was happening to the national magazines in the mid 1950s and the impact that TV had on them. His reflections about working for Collier’s magazine and what it meant when the magazine was closed resonated with me. But I am struck by how National magazines changed the newspaper business, television changed the national magazines  and now the Internet is changing television and of course all of these mediums also continue to change. One hears a lot of talk about the Internet and/or blogs being the end of newspapers but it seems to me this is just one more change in a long line of changes. Newspapers, magazines and television will not go away they will just continue to change.

I would definitely recommend In Search of History. I would also be very interested in other people’s reaction to the book. I have found that these quasi book reviews that I write continue to get wonderful comments long after they are written. It is almost like having an on line book club with no time limitations.

I think I will do a future post with a list of other autobiographical books I have enjoyed. Does anyone have any suggestions of autobiographical books they have enjoyed?

 

 

The Subject of My Blog – Retiring, moving, and downsizing

You should pick a subject for your blog, is something you usually find included in advice about how to start a blog. I’ve always resisted having a subject for this blog because I
want to talk here about all the varied things that I find interesting.  I think not having a specific subject tends to limit my readership to a smaller
group of people. I always say that I’m blogging because I like blogging, not to build a big readership but I have to admit I do look at readership statistics. 

For the next several months a big focus of this blog will be all the life changes that we are making. As you know Duke and I each retired last year. Our plan is to sell the house, move into temporary quarters (probably in the Reno area), and then spend the next several months traveling around looking for a place to settle down for the next phase of our life. I’m very excited about the adventure and will be sharing a lot about it here.

We won’t be selling the house until early summer but I’m starting to get ready now. The trim around many of the windows needs replacing and we’ve hired a guy to do that. I’ve been selling some of my books on Amazon.com and donating the ones that don’t sell. I’ve also been selling some odds and ends on Craigslist. The goal is to trim down our possessions and get organized.

Even though I will continue to talk about lots of different things on this blog, a reoccurring theme for the next several months will be downsizing, searching for a new place to live and finally moving and settling in. Of course I’ll be sure to keep you up to date on all the adventures along the way.

Yoshi’s, What I am Reading, and Charlie Rose – An hour with Michael Crichton

We went to Yoshi’s last night to hear Don Byron. He had a sextet and he played the saxophone and the clarinet.  It was a great show. I really enjoyed it. Duke is a volunteer driver for Yoshi’s and we get free tickets when he drives musicians to the airport. He Just left to drive Don Byron.

Before we went to the show last night we watched Michael Chrichton on Charlie Rose. It was a very interesting interview – One of the best I have seen. Coincidentally I just picked up Michael Chrichton’s book Travels  from the library.

I usually am reading more than one book at a time. Right now I am two thirds of the way through Theodore Rex by Edmund Morris and I have just started Team of Rivals by Doris Hearns Goodwin which I am reading for my non fiction books club. In addition my light reading is Simple Living by Frank Levering and Wanda Urbanska. I’ve read it before but I like to reread books I have enjoyed.

 

   

 

 

     

 

      http://video.google.com/googleplayer.swf?docId=-2663847011110488414&hl=en
   
A wide-ranging hour-long conversation with author Michael Crichton.  His latest book is "Next".
               

Lessons Learned when my Dad broke his hip.

As I mentioned in my last post my Dad fell and broke his hip on the morning of January 23. That morning Dad called and asked if I could come down to help out. Thank goodness I am retired. I was able to hop on a plane and be in San Diego by early afternoon. I ended up being in Escondido for two and a half weeks. Both my sisters and my brother also dropped everything to come down and help. It was a pretty intense exhausting time but thinking about the experience on my flight home I realized that it was also an intense learning experience. Here are some of the things I learned.

  • I knew next to nothing about options for getting help with living when you need it. I learned that it ranges form hiring in house help, to skilled nursing which is more than Mom and Dad needed, to independent retirement housing to assisted living which is what fit the bill. In their case Assisted living made the most sense. They are renting an apartment and then paying on top of that for the assistance they need.
  • In the two weeks I was in Escondido my sister and I looked at 5 assisted living places. I learned that in the area where my parents live there are lots and lots of assisted living places. The ones we looked at were all OK but the one we chose stood out to us as having better food, staff that seemed to know the residents and a more upbeat feel than the others we looked at. Of course only time will tell whether Mom and Dad like it or not.
  • I learned the difference between a living will, a power of attorney for health care and a do not resuscitate order (a DNR).
  • I learned first hand something that seems obvious. Moving from a 2000+ square foot house of your own to a two room apartment is very hard. Mom and Dad haven’t decided if this is  temporary or not. They may move back into their house when Dad’s hip is healed or they may move somewhere else or they may move to a bigger unit in the place they are now.
  • I learned that when you have trouble getting your words out people assume that your mind is slipping. My Mom is as sharp as ever but the Parkinson’s that she is battling makes it hard for her to say what she is thinking.
  • I learned the importance of perspective and of not trying to do everything and be all things to all people. I didn’t realize how emotionally draining the whole experience was until I flew home and got some perspective.
  • I learned how lucky I am to have a loving supportive family and three wonderful siblings . We all pretty much get along and are there to support each other even if we live in the four corners of the  country (Boston, Memphis, Tacoma, and the Bay Area)
  • I learned that we need to just take things one day at a time and keep our options open. My temperament is to always want to have a plan. But in a situation like this there are too many things changing on a daily basis to be able to see too much into the future. If my sisters hadn’t helped me keep my mind open to the possibilities and if we hadn’t continued to weigh our options based on the information available to us we would have missed out on better solutions that presented themselves over time. The first assisted living place that we thought we liked wasn’t as good as the one that a friend told us about later. The  first doctor  we talked to  about Mom wasn’t as helpful as the second one and  the solutions we worked out as a team were better than anything I would have come up with alone.

All of these  learnings seem painfully obvious but  in the stress of the moment I had to learn them anew. I’m really glad I could help out and that Mom and Dad are doing as well as they are. Who knows what the future holds but for now I’m trying not to worry about it. My brother arrived in Escondido today to help out and it sounds like everything is going pretty well.