Before leaving for the bay area today we stopped at the new firehouse pancake breakfast. The house we are renting is in the Del Webb’s Sierra Canyon at Somersett, It is just down the road from the fire station. It was a lot of fun to watch the kids sitting in the fire truck and trying out the fire hose. I am really enjoying reading the Reno Realty Blog that included the story about the pancake breakfast.
A Presidential reading project and His Excellency – George Washington
As I mentioned a few days ago I have started working on a goal of reading at least one book about each of our presidents. I enjoy biographies because of the personal perspective on history that they provide. If anyone reading this has suggestions of other good presidential books to read I would love to hear your suggestions.
I just finished reading His Excellency – George Washington by Joseph J. Ellis. I thoroughly enjoyed it. It gives what appears to be a very balanced view of Washington’s life. In reading it I came to appreciate what an extraordinary man he was. He certainly earned the title Father of our Country. Both John Adams by David McCullough and this Ellis book talk about what a pragmatist and realist Washington was and how valuable that trait was both during the war of independence and then later as president.
The book goes into some depth about Washington’s attitudes and actions towards slaves
and American Indians. In both cases his practical and realistic view of the issues seem admirable for the time.
One of the things that has surprised me about this time period is how partisan and vicious the press were. Both McCullough and Ellis discuss this. I thought that commentators like Rush Limbaugh and Maureen Dowd and their slanted, one sided, mean views of the world were a new phenomenon but apparently the press in the late 1700s may even have been worse if that is possible.
Washington’s concern about how he would be viewed by history surprised me. He not only worried about it but he also tried to shape it.
The fact that Washington retired after two terms and allowed the democratic process to work is something we take for granted. Ellis points out that it was an extraordinary act. How many revolutionary leaders from other countries can you think of who have done the same?
I am excited about my presidential reading project. I have always loved books and reading and I am finding that one of the best things about retirement is having the time to read. I love these quotes from the McCullough book about John Adams our second president.
“Adams library numbered 3,200 volumes”
“Unable to sleep as long as Abigail he would be out of bed and reading by candlelight at 5 in the morning and later would read well into the night.”
“Your father’s zeal for books will be one of the last desires which will quit him.” Abigail observed to John Quincy in the spring of 1816 as the 81 year old Adams eagerly embarked on a sixteen volume French history.
My Summer
This has been an incredibly hectic and challenging summer. I have a hard time coming up with the right way to describe the last three months.
My Mother’s dying overshadows everything else. It is like a run away freight train running right through the landscape of my life. All the things we did this summer like moving to Reno, getting our house ready to sell and visiting Duke’s family in Iowa would have been the major landscape scenery of the summer if that freight train hadn’t come barreling through. I like the illusion that I am in control of my life but this summer has reminded me that control is an illusion. Now I would like to think that things are getting back to normal. We are leaving tomorrow for the bay area to help Duke’s girls move back to College which starts for both of them next Monday. For Vicky we’ll help find an apartment in LA and help her move into it and for Valerie we’ll move her stuff into the dorms at St Mary’s in Moraga. Once that is done we will bring another load of our stuff from the storage locker in Union City up to the new house in Reno. We’ve lived here for going on 7 weeks and I have so far spent 5 nights here.
It bothers me some that I haven’t really thought about what it means that Mom is gone. I haven’t dealt with all the emotions of losing her forever and the horrible long dying process. I have been able to avoid falling apart emotionally by staying in denial. I
don’t think this is necessarily good but it is what it is. Any time
someone is symathetic I start to break up but then I just push all that to the background and go on. I suppose that in time I will deal with it. But for now I am just taking one day at a time. I know that it will help to spend time with my friends, my daughters and my Grandson. I’ve missed them.
My Mom – Margaret Helen Gibson Robinson – 1924 – 2007
My Mom died Friday morning July 27. She died at home as she wanted to. We had the services for her on Wednesday, August 2.
Even though she was ready to go it is very hard for those of us she left behind. We will all miss her so much. I can honestly say that I am who I am today because of my Mom. She gave me so much.
Here is the eulogy that I read at her funeral:
Mom was born in Vancouver British Columbia, Canada. She grew up in Jasper, Alberta in the heart of the Canadian Rockies. She loved the mountains. Her Dad was an train engineer for the Canadian National Railroad. He drove the steam engines that were used to pull trains over the mountains. Mom said she always remembered being a little bit scared of the giant noisy engines. She had memories of her Mom taking Gordon and her down to the station to visit her Dad when he was working. She also remembered one time She and her mother rode the train to a remote mountain meadow where he stopped and let them out. They camped, spent the night and picked blueberries. The next day the train stopped and took them home
When Mom was 13 her Dad died suddenly. Mom and her Mother and Brother emigrated to the U.S. to Spokane Washington where my Grandma started a nursing home. Mom graduated from High School in Spokane. She went to Washington State University where she received a bachelors degree in Nursing Education. One of her first nursing jobs was in Los Angeles where nurses were needed to help with the polio epidemic that was then going on. Mother worked at a few different nursing jobs for about a year and then
decided that nursing wasn’t for her. She enrolled at Iowa State University and received a BS in Home Economics education.
At Iowa State Mom met my Dad on a blind date in about 1947 (60 years ago!). They were married in 1950. Their first home was in Hibbing, Minnesota. Ironically in Hibbing married women were not allow to teach so although Mom was a qualified teacher she went back to work as a nurse until I was born. Eventually Mom and Dad moved to Bismarck, North Dakota where Barbara, Betsy and Charlie were born.
In 1964 when the opportunity presented itself Mom urged Dad to apply for a position helping to build a new oil refinery in Brisbane, Australia. Dad got the job. Mom and Dad packed up the whole family and we moved. We lived in Australia for 5 years and then moved to England, then Wales and finally Zaire. In Zaire Dad was heading a project to build a new copper mine in a remote area. There were no schools for the American and European children so Mother started the school and was the superintendent as it
grew.
Mom was always an excellent shopper. She loved a bargain and always got value for money. During our time in Australia, England and Wales Mom began to collect antiques. Mom and Dad’s home is decorated with beautiful and interesting antiques that she bought on their travels. There are biscuit barrels, a bed warmer, bellows, chamber pots, writing desks, candle sticks, tea caddies and several clocks and that is just the beginning. In England Mom visited the china factories and collected all the china that the whole family uses today.
When Mom and Dad finally moved back to the US Mom again became active in PEO, started Bible study and continued knitting, sewing, doing needlepoint and smocking. Mom continued to love to travel. In the last years she has visited the Holy land, the Galapagos islands, Russia and many other places. Within North America Mom and Dad explored Alaska, Prince Edward Island where Mom’s family came from, the Canadian
Rockies where Mom grew up and the Tetons where we vacationed when we
were young. Dad says that Mom recently told him that she wished she had
even traveled more
When I think about Mom and all she did with her life, what stands out and what I am certain was her proudest accomplishment was our family. Being a mother defined her and she was the best mother ever. She encouraged us, she taught us, she led by
example and most of all she loved us.
To Mom family was everything and her faith was overarching. Her faith was the rock on
which she built her life. She was an amazing woman and I think all four of her children can say we are who we are today because of our Mom and her encouragement of us and faith in us. Although she is gone I know that she will live in our hearts and we will never forget her.
Books
I have been doing a lot of reading lately especially when I am sitting with my Mom.
A few weeks ago I finished reading Team of Rivals by Doris Kearns Goodwin. What a wonderful book. It is definitely my favorite book of all the books that I have read in the last year. Goodwin is a wonderful story teller. I loved learning about the key figures of the American Civil War. Every person who aspires to being a great leader should read this book. Lincoln understood leadership and has to have been one of the most amazing leaders in American History.
Einstein’s Wife – Work and Marriage in the lives of Five Great Twentieth Century Woman by Andrea Gabor is about the lives of Mileva Maric Einstein, physicist and wife of Albert Einstein, Lee Krasner, a great American painter and Jackson Pollack’s wife, Maria Goeppert Mayer, winner of the Nobel prize in chemistry, Denise Scott Brown, architect and urban planner and Supreme court justice Sandra Day O’Connor. Other than O’Connor I knew nothing about any of these women. I liked learning about them but on the whole the book was plodding. When you compare it to books like Team of Rivals or John Adams you realize what excellent, compelling writers Goodwin and McCullough are.
My Life in France by Julia Child and Alex Prud’homme is the life story of Julia Child focusing on the period between when she moved to France and started cooking and 1961 when she published Mastering the Art of French Cooking. Although at times the book drags a bit I found It inspiring and interesting . Child and her co-authors spent 10 years developing and researching the recipes and writing the cook book. I really admire Child’s persistence and commitment.
1776 by David McCullough is another wonderful book that I really enjoyed. Even though I knew how it would come out, the story of the beginning of the American revolutionary war is amazing. I highly recommend it.
I also just finished John Adams also by David McCullough and really loved it too. Authors like McCullough and Goodwin make writing history look easy but I know they have rare skills. John Adams, Team of Rivals and 1776 are better than fiction.
I think I will try to read at least one book about each of our presidents. I just started His Excellency George Washington by Joseph J. Elllis which promises to be a great read.
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